One thing I’ve learned while being back in the dating game is that some guys are frickin’ weird. For funsies, I downloaded Bumble and Tinder shortly after my breakup. Before y’all go freaking out, I’m not looking for a boyfriend. All I want is someone to tell me I’m pretty and take me out to dinner and drinks. The last thing I need or want right now is commitment. Anyways, I thought that these apps would be a great confidence boost and help me get back into the swing of things. I also don’t know how to go out and meet a guy because the only guys I know are the ones I work with and I still have yet to meet the love of my life at Target aka the holy land. So here are some of the struggles I’ve encountered with online dating.
Dealing with a Breakup
So last week, I posted about my long distance relationship and I have some news for y’all. Jake broke up with me two nights later, completely out of the blue. At first I was so upset and angry and now, I’m relieved as crazy as that sounds. So in the same style as my long distance post, here are a few things I’ve learned in the past few days of dealing with a breakup.
Long Distance Lovin’
So I originally started this post while I was at the airport, waiting to board my flight to St. Louis to visit my boyfriend Jake. But in Kelsey fashion, this post sat in my drafts for a while and I figured I should probably post it.
If y’all don’t know by now, I live in Florida, and Jake is in Missouri, so Jake and I are clearly doing the long-distance thing. To be completely honest, it’s been hard but it’s also been worth it. I’ve learned a lot about myself these past 5 months being long distance.
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